To see older couples still in love and happy after so many years together is beautiful. I hope to get to that point one day. a lot of memories stories wisdom and knowledge.


If it’s meant to be

Most relationships doesn’t last because people are not willing to put in the work to sustain a good relationship. Listening to outside influences and letting their pride get in the way and ruin there happiness.

But couples that are truly meant to be with each other will always find a way to work out their differences and become a more stronger unit. #relationship#blog#realtalkwithmatty

Strong bond

In a strong relationship both partners have a commitment to each other and nothing or no one can destroy their love or their bond. #relationship #realtalkwithmatty


In a relationship when both people want their relationship to work they will fight like hell to figure out a solution to stay together. Ignoring outside interference in the effort of working out their differences. #relationship#blog

True love

True love isn’t found it’s built on trust respect friendship loyalty dedication and commitment to each other this is the foundations of true love. #true love#relationship#blog


True love is not being selfish making sure that you’re thoughtful respectful and considerate of your partner’s feelings and their happiness is equally important to you as your own. #relationship#blog

Love hurts

In a relationship If both of y’all can’t make a commitment to each other to be honest and true then maybe the best thing is to be just friends.


Relationship are beautiful when both parties are on the same Accord working together loving one another respecting each other it is truly a thing of beauty. Now the flip side of that is when a relationship goes south it usually all hell breaking loose chaos and mayhem.

When you speak about relationships words like love communication and honesty comes to mind but commitment also plays a big part in the union. With out these basic skills a relationship will not sustain the test of time.

A relationship is a job within itself you have to have patience and understanding communications also vital for a healthy relationship. If both partners are not strongly committed to one another and their relationship then they surely will grow a part and go their separate ways.

Just like anything in life that’s worth having a relationship takes time to develop but you also have to have love patience trust dedication and a strong sense of commitment to each other and make a promise to not let the enemy within and any outside forces tear you apart.

I’m looking for a good man

I’m looking for a good man. I hear this statement way to often from woman. Well ladies you first have to be a good woman in order to find and keep a good man. You have to understand the character quality and mindset of a good man to obtain one you also have to possess the same qualities as a woman to make it work. If you don’t know what a good man you will be running around in circles. It’s like going fishing without bait or a fishing rod just sitting there looking lost and confuse wondering why you’re not catching anything.

When you get a good man what are you going to do with him. Are you willing to work together be honest with him would you open up yourself to him willing to love respect communicate and cherish him help build a foundation together so you can grow as a couple.

Or are you the opposite a spoiled lying disrespectful manipulative woman. Always unwilling to communicate or compromise trying to control a situation and people but never taking ownership for your own actions. Are you the person that always have to be right in a relationship well these types of acts might have you being right by yourself still looking for your good man.

A good relationship is give and take compromise as well as communication making sacrifices loving and respecting one another do you want to be right all the time or do you want to be happy the choice is yours. These few things may help you in your search to finding a good man.


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