# Your a liar


The mystery that lies within

One thing I can’t stand is a liar if you will lie you also will cheat and steal they pretty much go hand in hand.

For some people lying seem to be an addiction like drinking and drugs. You expect a bunch of foolishness and lying from kids that’s what they do but not from grown ass adults.

We are quick to holla that we are grown but soon as some type of adversity comes along we are quick to try to weasel your way out of something. we would rather stand in front of someone and tell them a bald face lie instead telling them the truth that doesn’t sound too grown up to me. I guess for some lying is second nature

Bad Credit

Grown people lying for no reason is one of the biggest mysteries out there and getting an answer that’s sensible is about as elusive as Chessie the Chesapeake Bay monster.

Some would suggest a character flaw in an individual others might call it immaturity however you word it. It still adds up to bad credit and therefore you can’t be trusted and your words has as much value as lint in someone’s pocket and If I can’t truth you I don’t mess with you. Your words have no credit.


Tell the truth

Why lie is it the need to fit in with people or maybe not to disappoint someone either way the truth always seems to show up and at the wrong time no matter how much you try to lie and deceive.

One can lie to other in the hope of deception or to mislead but when you lie to yourself. You become entangled in your own webs of lies and deceptions and become lost in the process. People have forgotten the number one Golden Rule never lie to yourself because if you lie to yourself then you’re really not happy with the person that you really are.

Telling the truth is always the right way to go Mark Twain had a quote that says it best if you tell the truth you don’t have to remember anything.



Handle With Care

Raising kids is a job in it self. Being a good parent take a lot of caring understanding time pray and patience when dealing with children. As the parent our job is to provide for our kids protect and in still morals values in their everyday lives. We also as parents supposed to nurture our children guide them so that one day they be able to take care of their own self long after we are gone.

We have a responsibility

In life no one has all the right answers when it comes to raising kids you learn as you go or some might say baptism by fire. But as parents you do have an obligation to be there and protect them to nurture motivated and try to guide them into adulthood.

We first as parents must make sure that we are giving our children the right information to help them become good responsible adult able to manage their own life.  You can’t nurture a plant using dirty water no food sunlight and expect it to grow up health.  We must lead by example our words and actions always teach with love never from an angry place.  We should live by the same motto that we are trying to teach others.

The Teacher

Just like with plants you have to care for them daily with fresh clean water plenty of talking sun light and food to help your plant grow healthy. The same can be said for kids the more you instill morals values respect and kindness for their self as well for other people.   Along with good information from a loving caring person the better the chances your child has to becoming a good responsible person able on taking care of their self and maybe one day nurture their own children into adulthood.

# I don’t want no damn banana cream pie. I’m on a diet


Banana cream pie…..

One of my most popular blogs was banana cream pie where I discuss being in a relationship with an immature person who is unwilling to grow up plays games and is hurting but won’t help their self or seek help from others. You thought you found the person of your dreams only to wake up in a living nightmare.

This is how it feels when you’re in a dealing with a banana cream pie person who won’t take ownership for their actions and will try to blame you for their probably.

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Check yourself before you wreck yourself……

I want to talk to the fellas on this one. The good guys the straight-8 you know the responsible ones that do the right thing in a relationship but . Sometimes in life we try to play the saver and rescue people. I don’t know if it’s an act of heroics or a built-in mechanism inside of men that always want to save the day .

when in reality the only person that needs to be rescue is us. Because you’re carrying yourself in a responsibility and adult manner you expect your partner to do the same but when they don’t what are going to do.

You can’t help someone who doesn’t want your help you can only be responsible for yourself and your actions not for what someone else say or does.  Sometimes as men we call our self being a team players or not trying to make any waves so we go along just to get along hoping for change but in the end still getting the same results the lies the cheating the disrespect you don’t have to deal with.

Have you asked yourself this question over and over again (424 times) why does she always lie to me, why is she not listening or why does she keep disrespecting me. Well the answer is simple because you keep put up with the bull crap and they know it. Besides it says it in the banana cream pie handbook chapter 11 page 117.


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The banana cream pie diet…..

The first thing to do when you start the banana cream diet is to have a real talk moment with yourself and take accountability for your part in your situation people can only do what you allow them to get away with.

Next cut back on the immature, disrespect, lying, deception, angry mode-swings also watch your drama intake.  Follow these instructions and you well on your way to a happy and successful life using my banana cream pie diet.  Watch those unwanted dreadful drama-filled pound just melt away in no time AND REMEMBER JUST SAY NO TO BANANA CREAM PIE. (call now operators are standing by to take your order.)


Take ownership

We are the masters of our own universe  and no ones happiness should come be for your own.

You can’t complain about how someone is mistreat you lying, disrespecting, cheating  when your right there with front row seat and you do nothing to change your situation you allow it to happen therefore it will continue.

Some people create their own storms, then gets upset when it rains that’s what they do but it doesn’t mean that you had to go along with the program your happiness is important as well.

When you’re in a relationship you both suppose to be on the same page communication, respect, loyalty should be the very fabric of your relationship if it’s not A House Divided is a house that surely will fall.   

I’m on a damn diet and I don’t want no banana cream pie.


# Patriotism and the Flag code

To be patriotic or not to be…..

Now this is the question that most Americans are asking now days. It seems that people true colors are coming out with all the hot debates about patriotism and kneeling during the national anthem and what some people consider disrespecting the flag. Now the question of patriotism and the flag is a Heated topic. I was hoping to get Ray Lewis input on the situation but Ray Lewis’s is tired from trying to playing both sides of the fence poor little Ray Ray bless his asthmatic heart.


Deceptions and lies…

Now the so-called patriotic people was upset that Colin Kaepernick and other NFL players for kneeling during the national anthem. According to them disrespecting the flag and the military services now I don’t agree with them but it is their first amendment right freedom of speech to disagree. Everyone has their own opinion and point of view on the matter. I understand that you think that kneeling is disrespectful in your eyes. And being the patriotic person that you are would never disrespect the flag not you. Your as American as baseball and Mom’s Apple Pie so disrespecting the flag isn’t in your DNA.


The Flag code…..

I ran across an article that I know the Patriotic People would love to hear about the U.S. flag code. Let’s begin with the flag code United States code title 4 chapter 1 section letter D the flag should never be used as wearing the parole bedding or drapery this would be considered disrespecting the flag. (hmm) That’s interesting I’ll get back to that later. Letter I of the flag code. The flag should never be used for advertising purpose in any manner whatsoever it should not be embroidered on such articles as cushions, handkerchiefs, printed or paper napkins, plates, and boxes this is also shown as a sign of disrespect. But surely every warm-blooded patriots would know this (right).


America the Hypocritical bully showing its true colors…..

White America has approach this patriotism conversation with the attitude of do as I say not what I do. Now according to the masses it’s un-American to kneel during the national anthem but White America has no problem putting the flag on beer cans, clothing items, bedding, paper plates, napkins etc for-profit.

Like I stated earlier in the flag code chapter 1 letter I the flag should not be used in any type of advertisement purpose at all but yet White America does this everyday for profit. Now this is considered disrespecting the flag so how patriotic are you really. To have a strong conviction about a matter only to turn around and do the very same thing that you have condemn a person for is very hypocritical.


Honesty is the best policy…

White Americans what are you really mad about. Is it really about the flag the same flag that white American people disrespect every day. Remember the Flag should not be used for any type of advertisement flag bikinis, flags on beer cans, flags on NFL helmets, major league baseball caps, NBA Jersey and bank logos. But yet product are made and sold for profit every day so who’s really disrespecting the flag America.