The other day I got dragged into a convention two women was having complaining about their relationships I thought this was Subway eat fresh not hay stranger do you want to hear my mess now I don’t mind listening or helping somebody but sometimes we played a victim too much in society. The taller of the two women ask me excuse me sir would you respect a man who always cheat and lies on you well you shouldn’t a real man wouldn’t respect that.
It was obvious that the woman really didn’t want to hear what I had to say she already had asked me to question and answered at the same time I guess I was there for moral support or maybe I was an honorary girlfriend for the moment the women said I wasted 10 years fooling with him.
It’s human nature to complain about stuff that we have control of but won’t do nothing to fix it. People can only do what we allowed them to do so you can’t complain about someone’s ruining your life and you’re sit right there and watching them do it and don’t do nothing to prevent it, stop playing the victim and become your own hero.
As I excused myself from the lady’s I thought to myself sometimes in life you have to think outside the box know your worth. Think about in this perspective as far as your relationship goes you are the CEO of a fortune500 company and you’re in charge of whom to hire and who would be a good fit for your company to run the daily operations.
After months of carefully going through application you finally picked your candidate the one that will help you increase your earnings and help your company grow your new COO.
The chief operation officer (COO) handle issues related to marketing, sales, production, and personnel. Your new COO of your company is everything that you imagine your profits and business is flourishing life is good and everything is going well so well that you are thinking about making your COO a shareholder in the company. ( Always keep the majority stock in your own company)
The first two years of the new partnership between you and your new COO works great!!! together your companies on the rise. Just like with companies relationship sometimes hit rough and turbulent time to.
Now the next 8 years for you are not so great when it comes to your company business is down profits is down marketing sales and productions are at an all-time low it might be time for cut back and layoffs. As the CEO of your own company are you going to sit by and watch your company crumble or are you going to do something.
Sometimes in relationships we put more stock into other people then we do ourselves to listen to the lady at subway talk about her man and blame the whole 10 years on without no countability for her own action in the relationship is ludicrous. If you’re the CEO of your company then you’re in charge of the entire operation there shouldn’t be no coup and nothing should happen without your permission remember you are the only one who should have the majority control of your company.