#My Happiness 

Realtalk moment


Two years ago I had a real talk moment with myself and I didn’t like the answer that I got.  Have you ever been fed up with grown ass people who has nothing better to do then keep some type of drama going like an episode of Love & Hip Hop.

That was me two years ago just tried of the drama and gossip the same old daily routine.   For me it serve no purpose to give my point of view on someone else situation especially if the person didn’t ask me for my view on the matter nor am I doing anything to make their problem better.

If I’m minding my own business and taking care of my own affairs that doesn’t leave me with a lot of  time to be worried about any body else life or situations.  I’m too busy securing my own peace of mind and happiness to medal in anyone else life once I adapted this method life became a whole lot easier for me.

I control my own happiness


Always remember misery loves company and always looking for new friends to add to its ever-growing list of miserable people looking for drama conflict stress is not just a way of thinking but a way of life.   For me I rather be happy and stay positive.     A great mindset with positive thoughts bring positive energy .

Think about it in this perspective when you trying to live healthier you eat right exercise diet all in the hope for a better life  the same could be said with your mindset positive thoughts bring positive energy and positive result.   If you do this with your body you should also do the same with your mind when you start eating healthy you eat plenty  of fruits and vegetable.  So we can say the same thing about ones mindset.   Positive perspective self-esteem and appreciate what they all ready  have will be a key ingredient to ones happiness.

One of the most importing thing in life is ones peace of mind and happiness and you shouldn’t let anyone dictate it for you no one should never have that much power over your life and your happiness.  Happiness is found when you stop comparing your life to other people and started appreciate yours.   Sometimes we put too much stock in other people through and feeling and not enough into our own stock. Happiness lies within you sometimes you just have to give it a chance.

 

 

 

#New Year Resolution

What’s Your New year Resolution


As we begin a new year filled with promise and hope what is your new year resolution for 2018. Are you planning to take more trips this year or maybe doing more exercise for better health or perhaps you’re working on a better you in 2018. What ever you decide to work on try to stick with it you only live once so enjoy life. Why keep putting something off for tomorrow when you can do it today live life to the fullest.

 

Consistency always wins


Whatever you decide to work on eating right finding love exercise saving more money or maybe a better you just remember consistency is the key you may get frustrated and might want to stop whatever new adventure lifestyle or dreams you embark on this year remember never give up. Rome wasn’t built-in a day so it will take time for your hopes vision and your dreams to formulate but remember consistency is the answer.

 

Say no to negativity


2018 is a new year filled with hope and promise let’s not be Debbie Downer this year. Sometimes we can talk ourself out of doing things or sabotage a plan or idea before it even gets started it’s 2018 live a little. With a new year comes new opportunity and hopefully a new mindset for some lets leave the doubts and the negativity in 2017 where they belong.

Make 2018 your year the sky is the limit you can do anything that you put your mind to it just remember a positive mindset brings positive energy and a happier life. We are creatures of habit so doing something different or out of your comfort zone may seem strange at first try having an open mind and give it a chance you might surprise yourself and wake up one day to realize that you are enjoying life and living it to the fullest.  Don’t listen to the naysayers telling you what you can’t do remember you are the captain of your own vessel there for you control your own course and destiny.

2018 is your year live life to the fullest.

# The unsung heroes 

I was at work the other day and me and my Co-works was talking about our kids each one of us sharing our own fun story’s about the kids.

Pat was showing a video of his daughter eating lemons for the first time, pat was laughing so hard at the faces that she had made, standing there grinning like a proud dad living and loving the moment, and then there Mr. Gordy ( a.k.a cheesey bread )  talking about how his son and daughter are growing up so fast and talking about making plans for their future, as they were talking I was laughing inside I could see the joy on their faces as they tell stories about their kids now for me these types of conversations are normal with us but if you listen to society hogwash father are extinct as the dinosaur, after they were done talking the first thing I said to them was to cherish every moment.

Now if you listen to society and their stats talking about single black women raising their kids by their self the number are alarming.  According to the stats over 80% of black women take care of their children by their self with no type of help from the fathers.  That stats alone will have some people scratching their head but who’s to say how accurate they are . 

 

 There are different reason why some  father’s are not in their kids lives from the deadbeat dad, to the father’s that want to spend time with their child and be part of their lives but can’t for all the wrong reason.   Sometimes in life there is consequence, for every action there a reaction ( good or bad) and with every coin theirs always two sides of the coin and there are some women who use their kids like  chess piece’s for their own personal gain or maybe selfish reasons.

But right now I want to talk about the dads that spend time with their kids the father’s that instill values, teaches responsibility morals and respect while spending quality time with their kids.

One of my favor blog is I love my walk home I talk about how I didn’t spend as much time with my older children as I would have like to  but one thing I’ve learned over the years is to enjoy every moment and I did, however limited the time may be, any type of time is always good when use wisely.   When it comes to people attitudes and emotions take over in the ties can turn quickly what started off as calm  beautiful Waters today can turn into tomorrows dark gleaming typhoon in a matter of seconds.

So with each and every time that you spend with your child it a moment in time  for you and your kid to laugh learn grow teach listen bond together but most of all create memories that no one can take away.

In a society were they seem to preach and teach separatism between men and women I just want to acknowledge the biological father’s stepfather’s and father’s figures and  that make an effort to be in their kids life the men that’s their at school functions ball games, ballet and cheerleading competitions to help with homework, be there when your kid is sick and there just to talk and listing or maybe give a helping hand I salute you The unsung hero.

 

#My Happiness 

Realtalk moment


Two years ago I had a real talk moment with myself and I didn’t like the answer that I got.  Have you ever been fed up with grown ass people who has nothing better to do then keep some type of drama going like an episode of Love & Hip Hop.

That was me two years ago just tried of the drama and gossip the same old daily routine.   For me it serve no purpose to give my point of view on someone else situation especially if the person didn’t ask me for my view on the matter nor am I doing anything to make their problem better.

If I’m minding my own business and taking care of my own affairs that doesn’t leave me with a lot of  time to be worried about any body else life or situations.  I’m too busy securing my own peace of mind and happiness to medal in anyone else life once I adapted this method life became a whole lot easier for me.

I control my own happiness


Always remember misery loves company and always looking for new friends to add to its ever-growing list of miserable people looking for drama conflict stress is not just a way of thinking but a way of life.   For me I rather be happy and stay positive.     A great mindset with positive thoughts bring positive energy .

Think about it in this perspective when you trying to live healthier you eat right exercise diet all in the hope for a better life  the same could be said with your mindset positive thoughts bring positive energy and positive result.   If you do this with your body you should also do the same with your mind when you start eating healthy you eat plenty  of fruits and vegetable.  So we can say the same thing about ones mindset.   Positive perspective self-esteem and appreciate what they all ready  have will be a key ingredient to ones happiness.

One of the most importing thing in life is ones peace of mind and happiness and you shouldn’t let anyone dictate it for you no one should never have that much power over your life and your happiness.  Happiness is found when you stop comparing your life to other people and started appreciate yours.   Sometimes we put too much stock in other people through and feeling and not enough into our own stock. Happiness lies within you sometimes you just have to give it a chance.