The mystery that lies within
One thing I can’t stand is a liar if you will lie you also will cheat and steal they pretty much go hand in hand.
For some people lying seem to be an addiction like drinking and drugs. You expect a bunch of foolishness and lying from kids that’s what they do but not from grown ass adults.
We are quick to holla that we are grown but soon as some type of adversity comes along we are quick to try to weasel your way out of something. we would rather stand in front of someone and tell them a bald face lie instead telling them the truth that doesn’t sound too grown up to me. I guess for some lying is second nature
Grown people lying for no reason is one of the biggest mysteries out there and getting an answer that’s sensible is about as elusive as Chessie the Chesapeake Bay monster.
Some would suggest a character flaw in an individual others might call it immaturity however you word it. It still adds up to bad credit and therefore you can’t be trusted and your words has as much value as lint in someone’s pocket and If I can’t truth you I don’t mess with you. Your words have no credit.
Tell the truth
Why lie is it the need to fit in with people or maybe not to disappoint someone either way the truth always seems to show up and at the wrong time no matter how much you try to lie and deceive.
One can lie to other in the hope of deception or to mislead but when you lie to yourself. You become entangled in your own webs of lies and deceptions and become lost in the process. People have forgotten the number one Golden Rule never lie to yourself because if you lie to yourself then you’re really not happy with the person that you really are.
Telling the truth is always the right way to go Mark Twain had a quote that says it best if you tell the truth you don’t have to remember anything.
Handle With Care
Raising kids is a job in it self. Being a good parent take a lot of caring understanding time pray and patience when dealing with children. As the parent our job is to provide for our kids protect and in still morals values in their everyday lives. We also as parents supposed to nurture our children guide them so that one day they be able to take care of their own self long after we are gone.
We have a responsibility
In life no one has all the right answers when it comes to raising kids you learn as you go or some might say baptism by fire. But as parents you do have an obligation to be there and protect them to nurture motivated and try to guide them into adulthood.
We first as parents must make sure that we are giving our children the right information to help them become good responsible adult able to manage their own life. You can’t nurture a plant using dirty water no food sunlight and expect it to grow up health. We must lead by example our words and actions always teach with love never from an angry place. We should live by the same motto that we are trying to teach others.
Just like with plants you have to care for them daily with fresh clean water plenty of talking sun light and food to help your plant grow healthy. The same can be said for kids the more you instill morals values respect and kindness for their self as well for other people. Along with good information from a loving caring person the better the chances your child has to becoming a good responsible person able on taking care of their self and maybe one day nurture their own children into adulthood.
I choose the titled knowing yourself & loving yourself for this blog because the words are powerful. There are so many people that will sacrifice their own happiness just to please others( that’s sound like a recipe for disaster).
You can’t make anyone else happy if you’re not happy with you first. People spend so much time trying to please everyone else but will ignore themself. Your very own star player (you) how are you going to try to please everyone else but push your feeling morals and believes to the side and still make your self happy you can’t if you believe that you’re lying to your self. To know yourself is to be honest with yourself to shine in your own truth and except your own faults.
I think the serenity pray said it best god grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference it all starts with you. You can’t truly love someone if you don’t love yourself first know your own worth. Asked yourself when you start looking for a mate what do you look for first in a person do you look inward to a person heart and soul, or do you look outward at beauty looks and big body parts ( what ever you like).
When you’re looking to start a relationship what type of person are you look for a materialistic person or maybe a self-indulgent individual with that you get the lies games and immaturity. Or do you look inward to a person heart morals values honest and mature.
Asked yourself this when you in a relationship are you the victim or are you the bully what I mean by this is are you the person who keep complaining about how someone is treating you. Keep lying to you being disrespectful putting your feeling on hold cheating on you (the victim) or are you the type of person who stand up for their beliefs ( right or wrong) what todays society like to call ( the bully).
Everything starts with you. You are the question and the answer. You may ask why do people keep lies to me ignore your feeling mistreated me (the question) because you haven’t required them to treat you any different and you allow it. ( the answer) When you keep doing the same thing but you are looking for different results that’s insane .
Have you ever been in a relationship with someone and you tell them you don’t appreciate something but they keep doing it over and over again and you look at them like why don’t they get it maybe it’s not them maybe it’s you. If you tell a person the same thing 356 what you think they going to get it 357 may be you should change your mindset. People can only do what we let them do. Everything starts with you love yourself first and the rest will follow.