# Buyer remorse

Have you ever bought a product and it claimed to be new and improved version of the merchandise and you believe it and you get excited, better quality, greater  value it seems like one hell of a deal, it’s only later that you find out that  you have the same old product that you have had before,  now that’s false advertisement. Now can you imagine that you’re in a relationship and this happens to you the classic bait and switch what you thought was the women of your dreams turns out to be banana cream pie (A Broken Person )

You meet someone and they are everything that you had envision in a woman   sophistication, intelligent, gorgeous, kind and strong a dream come true.   You and her  are click like a well oiled machine, she starts a sentence and you finish it before she does, you get her and she understands you two peas in a pod.

You both share everything with each other past relationships your hopes, dreams, and  even your fears.   She tells you that she need a good man in her life and makes a promise to love you protect honor and respect her king forever, and you make a promise to her to do the same for your queen.   You catch your self thinking about her all the time and the way she make you feel.   When you was sick she took care of you, that time  you was having a rough day at the office  just hearing her voice made you smile and brighten your day. These feeling has you thinking that this might be the one to settle down with she’s so different from the Banana cream pie women you have dealt with in the past ( or so you think that’s about to change ).


Yesterday is gone and today your world has changed  you’re dealing with a new day and  a new person .   Yesterday  you thought she might be the one, now you see it the same old product. You was her rock, her king but today you’re nothing more than a mere filthy peasant, where she use to be kind and look out for you now she carried it like y’all are strangers or mortal enemies, you  use to check on her to see how her day was going now she feels like you’re bothering her and she doesn’t have time for you.  You once open your heart to her telling her your deepest fears now she use that against you.

In today society the first thing people say is what did you do to her to make her act that way.   Some time you don’t have to do nothing wrong, hurt people do hurtful things a broken person will not take responsibility for their own acting nor will they help them self  neither.  They  will blame everyone else for their problems and will try to break you if you let them. They can’t help themselves It’s what they must do to make them feel better, but it does mean you got to take it .  The best thing you can do for them is to let them walk their own path you can’t help nobody that’s not helping themselves.   Men when you are starting a new relationship take your time and be careful who you let in and who you share your heart with or you might have buyer remorse later,  me myself I’m on a drama free diet I don’t want no Banana cream pie you can keep it I’m good.