Have you ever talk to someone and they say I always have bad luck, now me personally I don’t believe in bad luck but I do believe in karma, and karma can be a mother. Think about it have you ever heard the same person complain about bad luck or trouble seem to follow them over and over again day after day year after year the same problem. Sometimes you have to be honest with yourself and do some self-evaluation.
Asked yourself are you being kind to everyone you meet are you treating people fair and with respect, maybe you are having a difficult time because of past action or may be past history. Sometimes people have select memories when it comes to how they mistreat people and the bad behavior that they may do to other people but when it come to them they have a memory like an elephant. You can’t keep thinking that you can take advantaged of people lie, cheat, steal, and don’t think that there will not be consequences for your actions( # You are not a special snowflake ) for every actions there is a reaction and most of the time people don’t like the out come when it comes back to them.
In life it’s all about choices and your choices will have consequences it’s all about how you deal with them. You can blame whom ever you want to for the bad luck or what’s going wrong with you ( your parents, teachers, siblings, pastor, co-works, spouse, family and friends) in the end of the day you are responsible for your own actions.You can point the finger at someone all day but look close and you will see four of them will be pointing right back at YOU.
Sometimes we create a difficult situation in life and want some forgiveness or understanding for our actions but will not take ownership for the problem that we caused. A grown up will take ownership for their actions while an irresponsible adult will make excuses for what going wrong with their life and how it’s someone elses fault for their mess not them, well like the old quote said you made your bed now you have to lie in it stop blaming everybody for problems that you have created and take ownership for your own actions.