Looking for other people to make you feel love happy and fulfilled will have you feeling empty. Happiness starts with you no one is going to take care of you better than you learn how to love yourself first before expecting others to do it.


Believe in yourself

When things seem dark and hopeless don’t give up have faith keep pushin when others doubt you never doubt yourself keep the vision make it happen you can do it trust in yourself and trust the process.

There are good men out here

Men sometimes get a bad rap especially when it comes to relationship. But nobody mentioned that there are good guys that’s trying to do the right thing while in a relationships and catch hell. Some women say they want a good man but you first have to be a good woman and understand how to treat a man.

We all have our personal issues that we bring into a new relationship a little baggage but some of you women have a 7 piece luggage set with a carry-on bag and a makeup kit.

Women there are good men out in the world but some of you won’t be able to maintain a relationship and keep a good man if you bitter and angry at the world all the time.


Everyone has lied to they self before while in a relationship. The most important thing as well as the most difficult thing is to be honest with yourself you have to see the situation for what it is.

If the person is unwilling to change their ways correct what’s wrong or fight for the relationship then maybe that’s not worth being in a relationship with sometimes you have to just let go.


Some people are unwilling to learn mature and grow therefore they will always be a prisoner. We are truly creatures of habit and for some psychology speaking their own worst enemies. In today’s world if you are unable to adapt you will be left behind and stuck in time.

You can’t keep doing the same thing and expecting different results that’s truly the definition of insanity. If you can’t change your views of yourself the world and life you will never be truly free. Just a person imprison in there own mind trap and in bondage.

Good morning Queens

To all the beautiful woman out there never let anyone bring you down to their immature level remember you are a queen and you don’t have no time for fools and their games.

Good morning people have a great day today and to my beautiful daughter I love you enjoy the rest of your day everyone.# WCW#Good morning#Realtalkwithmatty


Happiness always starts within. Stop looking for happiness in the place that you lost it once it’s gone it’s gone stop looking for others to make you happy it starts with you learn how to love yourself before you can love others.


As I get older and become more mature you realize that you don’t have a lot of patience for foolishness drama and petty games and some people may perceive this as changing.

It’s not that I think I’m better than anybody else it’s just I have a different view on life then others and I’ve have become more mature.

You can’t grow in life always trying to dim someone else’s light this won’t help you become a better person. And for me I didn’t change I just found myself I’m trying to live love and learn in the hope of becoming a better man a better father a better husband a better human a better me.


Dealing with everyday life can be demanding and stressful enough by itself without listening to somebody trying to crush your dreams. Don’t get frustrated definitely don’t give up stay strong have faith continue to run your race.

Your journey is for you and you alone no one else opinion matters you don’t need a co writer all you need is you your vision and your dreams.

Good morning

Some people pray when they need something. Others may have lost faith you have to trust in him he’s always there. He may not come when you want him to but he’s always on time. Good morning everybody have a blessed day.

Motivation Monday

We laugh we cry we fall we raise. We experienced hard times which help us learn and grow. We weather the storm to see brighter days one thing we will never do is give up know how no way.

Motivation Monday

Sometimes we spend too much time look for approval and applause from the wrong people. Waiting for praise and acknowledgement for our work. When in fact the only validation we need is our own.

Never stop believing in yourself keep moving forward towards your dreams. Don’t let anyone try to define you or put you in a box. You’re the captain of your vessel full speed Ahead.

Good morning

Good morning people I hope that you have a wonderful and blessed day. Never give up on yourself even when times get rough and you feel like you standing all alone. you have to keep pushing keep fighting for better days are coming have faith and trust that you can make it through.


Every action doesn’t require a reaction silence sometimes is golden. Arguing with a person trying to get your point across can be fruitless unless the person has an open mind to understand your point of views and your feelings you’re wasting your time.

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